In Love…Really?
âYou know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.âÂ
â Dr. Seuss
What’s it like to be in love…I mean really in love with you husband or wife? Well after almost 30-Years of it, and having gone through so many different seasons, some straight from heaven, and others from the pit of hell.Â
I feel just qualified enough to touch on the subject ever so lightly. I know this, real love begins in your…
Head
You love them in your mind, and for their mind. You know what they like, and don’t like. And you respect, honor and give attention to it if you agree with it or not.
Heart
This is a “biggie.” Your heart is the holder of all your emotions. Especially for those we care about. It’s the holding place of dreams, hurts, passion, intimacy and contentment.
To the one we love, they have ALL of our hearts. We hold nothing back.
Hand
This is our actions. We serve, touch, hold and guard the one we love. Our heart is so much theirs that our bodies must follow. Intimacy and sex are a constant overflow of and extension of what we believe in our heads and feel in our hearts for our lover.
Are you in love? I mean really, really in love? How do you know?
Categories: Relationships
This has always been a big, important subject for me and I’ve spent hours thinking about it. Thanks for tying it back to your previous thoughts.
So glad it could be of some encouragement to you my brother.
I follow on Twitter & G+, but don’t always have time to stop and read longer pieces. Glad I found time for this one. Some really good thoughts.
So honored Bill, I really appreciate that. Stop by more often … 🙂
I’m pretty sure the when the husband, who’s wife has alsheimer’s and cancer, goes to sleep, his dreams are more fun than reality. But I’m equally sure if he is caring for her, he is truly in love.
Good post 🙂
Good test twist on that John! Thanks.
I just need to know if you are truly in love with someone, if it’s possible to ‘fall out of love’, or lose some feelings.
I think this one is hardest question what i can’t answer now because :
I feel if i’m in Love when i think i will or must give my life to save what (conditions that i feel it’s a right thing, family, friendship, brotherhood) or who (someone who weaker than me, my sisters/brothers, my friends) loved because i don’t know why…i feel it’s more better to see me die than see them dying/suffering or sometimes i think it’s because some of them feeded me their Love.
But, because i’m not Jesus, it’s only in my dream, in reality i only can choose to save one or some of them by my life & it’s hard option because i must choose what or who i most really love from anyone what or who i love…
And i love to think a lot Pastor about it because for me it’s worth question what i hope i can answer 🙂
“Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.” Jn 15:13 that how we know, r we laying it down daily? Or are we making sure we get our way?